What people “think” they are yearning for is to have the externals in their lives change: other people, outside circumstances, more money, romance, better behavior from their children, etc. However, what they discover if they look deep enough that outside changes make no inside change, and no matter how circumstances change, it’s the inside that matters. When I can shift my yearning from changing others to changing myself, then I start becoming happy. Happiness grows from the inside out, but only always. Thanks for making me grow each day!